Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Get It Together!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009
There are many times where I can really get beside myself and continue to complain and fuss about the things that aren’t going in my life and the things that I don’t have. I’ll even get caught up in my emotions of feeling sad, lonely etc. I’ll even pull the victim card once in awhile. But then I think….

Where does this get me?

Absolutely no where.

My mom always tells me when I start to have a bad attitude that I have a choice about how to feel. Either I can let it go and let God, or continue to hold on to my problems by myself because no one likes misery’s company. I know it’s sometimes hard to get through your emotions but sometimes you got to tell them to stop and start using your brain instead of your emotions to guide your decisions. And playing the victim role, I’m gonna be honest…I struggle with that. Every time I have a problem it’s not “woe is me”. I have to tell myself to literally “man-up” because some things are not worth the time and energy. You know the saying “a smile gets you further than a frown”? I’ve realized that it’s so true.

So don’t sweat the small stuff. If you have some issues going on, talk to the people you love…that’s why they are there. And if your feeling stressed and need some time alone check out Nikki’s Healthy Kisses for some Powerful Relaxation Techniques.

And most of all remember...

woo-sah! :)