Friday Afternoons

As I sit here at my desk on a Friday afternoon, winding down to my reggae/caribbean, I thought how relaxed I feel today. I woke up at 4:30a a little anxious to come to work this morning because I knew I would be in the office by myself (for the first time) until about 9a. In order to get in work mode, I prayed. Yes, prayer works! I came in to work with a different attitude. Instead of coming in already defeated, I came in confident with a smile. I figured if I didn't know something or how to do something I had to improvise. What's wrong with a little spice in your life, right?

I'm at the end of my work day and am ready to start life (well, my weekend at least)! I finally get a moment to breathe and I realized just how soothing the sounds of Raheem DeVaughn, mixed with a little reggae, and the right attitude make for a pretty funky afternoon. Now it's your turn...what gets you through a Friday workday? What keeps you relaxed until 5p hits? Do Tell!

Check Me On Your Video Phone

I know a lot of people are probably Beyonce-d out but you have to admit this video she is giving the business and adding GaGa to it too?

I love it!

Vintage Fab

If you guys are familiar with The Fashion Bomb better start getting aquainted..trust it will change your fashion game for life!

Anyways they have a new post called Vintage Fab, asking readers to send in vintage pics of their family working out the fashions of the past and your own Kabuki Queen's family was featured! Check it out!

I'm Still A Rockstar...

So as I was making the changes to the blog Pink's "So What" came up on my playlist. It's a fun song to rock out to but I actually started listening to it and realized it applied to me more than I thought.

Oh trust I'm not trying to start trouble or have me or my ex start a fight. But Pink is basically saying, "Look so what if you're gone, so what if you're lame...I'm still fabulous and even more fabulous since you've been gone."

Story of my life.

Since I left you last it seemed like every male relationship I once had or currently have just burst into flames. I had got so down and out about myself that it was showing in everything. Ladies, I know there always is always a small portion of us that wants to be validated at some point, especially by a guy (if you don't agree it's cool, but hey when it comes to me that's what it is). And when it seems like no one appreciates you, it just sucks!

But hold up!

I had to look at myself and literally say "I am worth it, and if he can't see it then there is obviously something wrong with him" and pretty much any other guy that can't see that. So...

So what, I don't need you

So what, I'm better without you anyway

So what, I still look TOO damn good

So what, it's you're loss player

So what, I'm alright and just fine

And so what, I'm still the sh*t b*tch!! *snaps in a circle 3 times*

Don't mean to be hostile, just had to make the point :). But here's a few videos just to make you feel good and know that if your in a similar situation, you're better without him. And fellas if you're feeling the same way, you're better without her!

Enjoy!

Guess Who?

I hope you all didn’t forget about me!

First off I want to thank everyone who was supportive as I took a hiatus and especially thanks to Ms. Nels holding KabQueen down while I’ve been gone. Can’t believe I’ve been gone over two months!

There’s so much to discuss I know I won’t be able to put it in this one post but I just wanted to let you all know this for right now:

I’m baaaaaaaacccckkkkk!

:)