Thursday, November 12, 2009

I'm Still A Rockstar...

Thursday, November 12, 2009
So as I was making the changes to the blog Pink's "So What" came up on my playlist. It's a fun song to rock out to but I actually started listening to it and realized it applied to me more than I thought.

Oh trust I'm not trying to start trouble or have me or my ex start a fight. But Pink is basically saying, "Look so what if you're gone, so what if you're lame...I'm still fabulous and even more fabulous since you've been gone."

Story of my life.

Since I left you last it seemed like every male relationship I once had or currently have just burst into flames. I had got so down and out about myself that it was showing in everything. Ladies, I know there always is always a small portion of us that wants to be validated at some point, especially by a guy (if you don't agree it's cool, but hey when it comes to me that's what it is). And when it seems like no one appreciates you, it just sucks!

But hold up!

I had to look at myself and literally say "I am worth it, and if he can't see it then there is obviously something wrong with him" and pretty much any other guy that can't see that. So...

So what, I don't need you
So what, I'm better without you anyway
So what, I still look TOO damn good
So what, it's you're loss player
So what, I'm alright and just fine

And so what, I'm still the sh*t b*tch!! *snaps in a circle 3 times*

Don't mean to be hostile, just had to make the point :). But here's a few videos just to make you feel good and know that if your in a similar situation, you're better without him. And fellas if you're feeling the same way, you're better without her!

Enjoy!


3 comments:

Unknown said...

girl, pink is the ish...i had to go back to my old phone bc my sidekick broke and i totally forgot i have the so what ringtone lol! real talk though, the problem isn't men doing you dirty and leaving you high and dry. the problem is when we get into a good "situation" we don't know how to act. there should never be a moment where we give someone the ability to break our self-esteem. like katt says, "it's the esteem of yourself." we have to stop falling for mcdreamy eyes and learn how to guard our hearts. can i get an amen? AMEN!

Unknown said...

and while we're on the subject, i can't seem to get over my manly man either. however, i'm learning to look at the bigger picture. all of these men we're pining over...only one can be our hubby. therefore, let's learn how to stop whining over 55 and focus on THE one that God intended for us to end up with. like i always say, singleness is the time to get yourself in order. as high of standards as we hold our men too, we need to meet them there as well. if we're looking to pull doctors and lawyers, we can't be piddlin with pennies! another amen from the sister in the red hat! lol

Erica Jordan said...

AMEN! such fabulous wisdom!!